{"id":300,"date":"2017-07-25T21:57:18","date_gmt":"2017-07-26T02:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cjaiferry.com\/blog\/?p=300"},"modified":"2017-07-25T21:57:18","modified_gmt":"2017-07-26T02:57:18","slug":"breakup-pie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cjaiferry.com\/blog\/breakup-pie\/","title":{"rendered":"Breakups: The downs and ups"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m feeling kinda goofy this week. It could be the ever-present caffeine or the full 8 hours of sleep I am getting each night or the 10,000 steps I keep taking each day, but I think it&#8217;s actually the fact that I have been Facebook free for 72 hours.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, for the last week of July, I decided to stop Facebooking completely. I actually started weaning myself off it 2 weeks ago, but by Saturday, I was fed up with some of the ridiculous comments on posts and I said &#8220;enough!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Okay, okay, really it was because I started to realize just how much time I was spending on the Book. Whenever I had to work on something that wasn&#8217;t exciting, I logged on to FB and read and read and read. And when my friends weren&#8217;t posting updates or sharing memes fast enough, I would get antsy. As a result, I wasn&#8217;t getting stuff done.<\/p>\n<p>So I went cold turkey&#8230;and it hurt. Sunday I was convinced nobody loved me, Monday I was sure no one even <em>liked<\/em> me. I&#8217;ll be honest. I shed more than a few tears of self-doubt in the first 48 hours.<\/p>\n<p>But at the same time, I was discovering something else: All the ideas I wanted to share on FB could be shared elsewhere&#8212;on <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/CJaiFerry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">other social media sites,<\/a> on my blog, on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.patreon.com\/CJaiFerry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Patreon<\/a> (I scheduled a lot of posts there!), and even on other writing\/publication sites. Instead of wasting my time, energy, and creativity on FB, I was invigorated to share my writing and ideas in other public forums, places that might get more eyes on my creative writing.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m still moving slowly in these other realms. I don&#8217;t want to jump head first into five different arenas and not be able to keep up. I am working on one outlet at a time. As I feel more confident that I can maintain the pace I am setting, I move on to the next outlet. Soon&#8230;world domination!!! (okay, that is definitely the caffeine talking)<\/p>\n<p>This week&#8217;s prompt from Charli Mills at the <a href=\"https:\/\/carrotranch.com\/2017\/07\/21\/july-20-flash-fiction-challenge-2\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Carrot Ranch<\/a> is:\u00a0In 99 words (no more, no less) write a story that features a pie.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px; text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">That&#8217;s Amore<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">He squinted at the green digital numbers. 350? His stomach growled. He cranked the stove up to 500. His arthritis wasn\u2019t bad today. He could probably work the extinguisher. <em>Where was it?<\/em> He shrugged.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">Two cups flour, half cup water. <em>Mix, mix, mix<\/em>. What was he forgetting? Salt! A healthy tablespoon full. He spread the dough on the baking sheet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">No tomato sauce. <em>Damn.<\/em> Ketchup it is. Shame his stomach didn\u2019t do dairy no more. <em>What about vegetables?<\/em> He found six-year-old parsley buried in the cupboard. That would do. Pizza pie \u00e1 la Milton.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"color: #800000;\">God he missed his wife.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m feeling kinda goofy this week. It could be the ever-present caffeine or the full 8 hours of sleep I am getting each night or the 10,000 steps I keep taking each day, but I think it&#8217;s actually the fact that I have been Facebook free for 72 hours. 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